Saturday, December 29, 2007

Getting Closer

I'm just about finished with the Cabled Yoke Cardigan - I'm VERY happy with it, it looks good on Hannah (who is about 3 sizes too small, and lacking the womanly attributes that will make it fit more as envisioned...)

It looks better from the back, and I may rip out the front ribbing and try a different route. Or not.

But Hannah is a tall girl, and a wonderfully patient live mannequin, and she has ARMS (always is important in seeing how sleeves actually fit.)

And, most important, she's patient. Thank you, Hannah! I'll try to get better pictures later...

So after some futzing I sat down and did the math for the pattern - this is a complex one.

But if I can get the formulas to come out right, it shouldn't be too wacky, but it will take some concentrated thought.

I'm forcing the sleeves to the back, making the area between the back armholes slightly narrower than the front. In the case of this sweater I think it will make for a more flattering look due to the heavy cabled yoke, but it's an extra element to consider.

I also think this is a sweater that may do well with a belt, but I'm going to think long and hard about it.

So I have this pattern to write up, the pattern for the Cropped Cardigan, and then the pattern for the Tilli Tomas cardigan. I have pretty complete notes on the latter two, and this one is on the edge of being finished. I need to wait for the kids to go back to school, though, so I can have a good, long block of uninterrupted time to immerse myself in the math.

Wild!
Max just got back from a Minnesota Wild hockey game with a friend from Baseball and his uncle. He had a MOST amazing time - he was absolutely glowing! Not only was the game a blast (they played Edmonton) but he had a wonderful time with his friends, just being part of a group of guys doing a guy thing.

Max has missed that - the mental and physical rough-housing - and he's had an emotionally draining years. And our friends were MORE than generous, and Max came home with a jersey (pre-bought) so he would fit in with the crowd. We should have painted his face.

Sometimes I worry that his naturally sensitive nature - he's a pretty empathetic kid - will be too strongly affected by this year of turmoil. So I'm so grateful to my friend and her brother (and other male members of the family) who included Max in this boy-friendly outing. THANK YOU!

Now the big question - does ANYONE know how to go about signing a kid - who is just an okay skater but very enthusiastic - up for Hockey in a town where everyone seems to have played it since birth? Max asked about it before, but I couldn't find a local program that seemed to meld with his skills. I have a funny feeling that I'm missing something that's right in front of me...

Tomorrow a friend who's in town for a few days has invited us for some hotel pool swimming - the kids will be thrilled (Gerry will probably stay home) I always look forward to poolside knitting.

Ads I Could Live Without
There's an ad on TV where folks sit around discussing the cost of dear ol' mom's interment, the point being that one should get insurance to cover these costs so your family won't have to have the constipated look on their faces that the heroine of the ad has.

The ad itself is annoying - and guilt inducing. And it prompted Gerry to bring up the subject of 'What on earth will you DO with me when..?' We haven't discussed this so far. This is odd, and painful, and feels out-of-body.

Gerry's going through a rough period of very low energy (he's had an infection recently) and he's not getting out and around as much as he would like to.

What on earth WILL we do with him? Or without?

I can't decide whether having the kids home has been draining, or whether he's pretty much the same as he's been, but having extra bodies in the house has highlighted the amount of time he spends resting.

I can tell how bad he feels when he doesn't seem inclined to fix dinner or putter around the house, or toss a load of laundry in the washer. Not that we've turned him into Hazel or anything, but keeping busy is good for the body and the soul.

Let's hope this infection clears up soon. Let's hope the restart of the Zometa in a few weeks has a positive, strengthening effect!

New Years' Eve
Gerry and I arranged to drop the kids off at a babysitting "festival" being held by the local girls' soccer group as a fundraiser at a nearby church. We did this in New Jersey once, and it was a great success. If he's feeling up to it, we can drop them off, then go see a movie (maybe Juno or Charlie Wilson's War) and then pick them up and come home in time to see the ball drop on TV.

Good heavens, when did we become so middle aged? Do they do fireworks over the state capital here? We may drive over to one of the bridges and watch them - that's always fun! At least we're seeing friends the next day - life outside our gang of four!

At any rate, I'll have my new ON SALE gloves that I bought this week - aren't they amazing? Cabled backs and leather palms!

I adore them - and they match the PT Cruiser!

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Blogger shoeboots said...

The cardi is looking great! I wasn't sure about the lace portion, but it looks really good on! We saw Charlie Wilson's War this weekend- Aaron Sorkin did the screenplay, so if you like the West Wing, then you'll fit right in.

December 29, 2007 11:49 PM  
Blogger Clumsy Knitter said...

I grew up just down Grand from you, and I had five brothers who didn't grow up skating. I do remember that they found hockey lessons when they got to the age Max is though. And Groveland always has an ice rink set up so he can practice. (Corner of Cleveland & St. Clair). :)

December 30, 2007 12:48 AM  
Blogger OfTroy said...

it might seem --well not right, but i would recommond STIFF its about the curious lives (HA!) of cadavers.

its not about death or dying, its about bodies..

but it is filled with idea of what you can do with a body.. (bury it, burn it, turn it to plastic (for use anatomy classes for medical personal who don't get to take anatomy (like nurses!) donate it to science.. (or medical research..)

Its quite funny at times.. some of the images (created with words, there are no pictures!) are quite funny..

Gerry could live another 50 years.. an any one of us could die tomorrow.. (a bridge could collapse!) Stiff is a strange funny book that makes talking about how to honor the shell--the tactile reminder of the person that it once was--there are some very funny images. (being dead is like being a cruise, you lie around, not doing much, getting soft.. no expectations, no hurry.. no worries, no pain! )

death and contemplating it, or contemplating the death of a love one is not funny.. but Stiff isn't about death. (and thoughts of death are like shadows.. always there, sometimes less apparent...and some time clearer than we'd like. )

December 30, 2007 1:02 AM  
Blogger j said...

The sweater is beautiful Annie- Hannah is a lovely model.

My best to Gerry. Hope he feels better soon.

You guys are so often in my thoughts. Funny, because I only know you through the blog, but there's not a day that goes by that I don't wonder about you all and hope you're having a good day.

My family gets regular updates, too, after I read your blog. :) Our best to your family, from ours.

December 30, 2007 7:54 AM  
Blogger Leslie said...

In case I don't "see" you tomorrow I am offering my wishes for an entirely super 2008 to you and your family. May love stick to your face like Vaseline and may laughter assault your lips! May happiness slap you across the face and may your tears be that of joy. May the problems you had forget your home address! And may good health decide to move in and adopt you all.

December 30, 2007 8:15 AM  
OpenID kmkat said...

You may have talked about this before, but has Gerry considered taking up knitting? or crochet, since knitting in the same house as you could be intimidating? Just a thought...

I second the endorsement of Stiffs, the book. It was entertaining and educational and interesting.

December 30, 2007 9:03 AM  
Anonymous roz said...

I love the man in the hat and his little orange cat photo -- so serene. I would simply revel in that moment and remind myself that even in the midst of chaos, life is good -- for the right reasons.

And in that photo, the reason is pure love.

Happy New Year -- two days early!

December 30, 2007 9:56 AM  
Blogger Meg said...

First a wish for a Happy New Year! About the hockey ... here they work with the kids who don't skate as well a little extra ... not so much that the kids notice but enough that they are going great guns by the end of the seaon. Maybe sign him up as soon as the season ends there and then he will have all spring and summer to work on his skating. Kids are amazing ... and he will be up to speed in no time.

December 30, 2007 10:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I vote "no" on the belt (unless it's a cord belt that runs through that horizontal band at the waist). I think it'll be overkill.

Happy New Year!

December 30, 2007 11:29 AM  
Blogger Ann said...

As regards the hockey, ask the school secretary! That's how we found booster club and its sports when we moved to a new town (the kids were in 5th and 7th grade respectively and had played soccer, swum and wrestled from kindergarten).

Scool secretaries know EVERYTHING!

December 30, 2007 12:17 PM  
Blogger deb said...

We just saw "Juno" at the Southdale theater (more suburban than the Lagoon, but the seats are better - stadium-style) and I've put it on my lifetime top 10 list.

For context, others on my list are Best in Show, Passionfish and most other things by John Sayles, Strictly Ballroom, Waiting for Guffman, Grosse Point Blank, Pleasantville, Almost Famous, and the Bourne trilogy.

Yarn-related: picked up some koigu at The Yarnery yesterday.

December 30, 2007 12:56 PM  
Blogger Guinifer said...

Annie - your school district should have a Hockey Association - definitely call the school secretary. There are lessons and clinics EVERYWHERE. The kids are usually grouped into three levels A, B and C. C is usually more fun because there is much less "pressure" on family and kids.

Something to consider. Lacrosse is an up and coming sport in Minnesota - coming from out East - Max may be more familiar with it. The Swarm start their Box Lacrosse season soon, and tickets are relatively cheap, and the games are every bit as fun as hockey games (though not as many fans). Games are always on the weekends. I know there are a few good LAX programs in St. Paul. Plus, Max doesn't have to know how to skate! My eleven-year-old actually plays both sports.

December 30, 2007 4:03 PM  
Anonymous Judi said...

"Gerry's going through a rough period of very low energy (he's had an infection recently) and he's not getting out and around as much as he would like to."

This is very normal with or without an infection. A stem cell transplant takes a heavy toll on the body. It takes a loooooong time to get "over".

My best wishes to you and Gerry as you get through these trying days.

December 30, 2007 4:41 PM  
Anonymous Jude in Jersey said...

Annie, love the sweater!
About hockey, I don't know how it works in Minnesota - know there's a lot more of it than here in NJ (I'm the Maplewood mom who spotted Max in Net Nomads last summer) but I have a son who plays hockey very seriously. If you were in NJ, and I didn't already know a lot about the clubs here, I'd suggest calling the rinks and asking what clubs or rec. programs use their rinks. You might also find someone (maybe a high school-aged boy) who could give Max a couple of skating lessons to help him improve his skills. Then practice through Spring & Summer to be ready for a hockey instructional clinic in the fall. There are also a gazillion hockey camps that operate during the school vacations - including summer vacation at indoor rinks across the country. Some are residential, many are not. My son has worked the past few years at a hockey day camp in Morristown the last few years. They have kids of all levels in all age groups, and even in Minnesota, there might be a few other boys Max's age who weren't born on skates!
In NJ there are club travel teams and "house leagues" as well as some town teams (Morris County has an extensive network of town teams, Essex does not - so you never heard about that in S.O.)
The suggestion about Lacrosse was interesting since hockey and lacrosse are widely viewed in the hockey and lacrosse worlds as sports that are complementary. My son was told early on by his hockey coaches not to play roller hockey, as it would hurt, not help, his ice hockey skills (think about how different turning and stopping are) but that lacrosse in the "off season" (as if there were one!) would help his hockey skills. So, Max might try both..... maybe lacrosse will "stick" and he won't feel he has to catch up with his peers!
If he does skate, invest in skates for him. (you may be able to find 2nd-hand, which isn't ideal, but better than rentals. Rental skates are horrible, hurt, not usually properly sharpened, etc. If he sticks with it, you'll know when he needs to get his own, not previously broken in, skates.) If you're lucky he still wears a shoe size that qualifies as a "junior" skate size....saving you big bucks!
Happy New Year....you all deserve all the best in 2008!
I look forward to seeing you teaching something in NY/NJ area sometime! Jude in Jersey

December 30, 2007 5:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

RE: Hockey - I live in Canada and you can imagine how hockey-mad the kids are. When my son was young he was desperate to play hockey but we resisted - we didn't like the early mornings, etc but he finally persuaded us. Since he was so far behind the other kids (he was 11) we started him in power skating lessons and he attended a one week summer camp (not residential). We had signed him up with one of the local minor hockey associations and he was assessed and played on one of their "house" level teams. He was lucky to have 2 great coaches who helped us get organized with equipment and tie his skates us (I couldn't do it "Right".) By the end of his second year he was getting called up to play on the rep team and by age 12 he was on the rep B team. At age 13 he made it onto the A rep team and they won the provincial championship. I think he progressed quickly because he loves it so much and it was something he chose versus something we just signed him up to do. It's also worth it to get good well-fitting equipment. Talk to the folks at the hockey club and see if they have suggestions about good used stuff and or go to a local hockey store and ask them if they have good ideas about stuff to start out with. The skates will be the most expensive but are worth it if they fit well. He's 16 now and most of his christmas/birthday presents are hockey-related - he's still playing and most of his friendships are other kids that play hockey. You won't regret the time and energy you spend on this when you see how happy your son is.

December 30, 2007 7:10 PM  
Blogger Ellen said...

Highland Arena has skating lessons including beginning hockey skills. That or the John Rose Oval are good starting points - and not all early skaters are good ones! I also second the Lacrosse leagues. They are all full of "never befores" - good luck on the search.

We'll continue keeping Gerry and your family in our prayers - a Happy, healthy and peaceful New Year to you in Saint Paul.

December 30, 2007 11:32 PM  
Blogger knitbysue said...

You seem to have a lot of good hockey suggestions.
Another thing to try is phoning the Minnesota Youth Athletic Services (MYAS). I'm not sure they cover hockey but if you phone them I bet they could steer you in the right direction.
http://www.myas.org/gm/_myas_home.asp
763-781-2220

December 31, 2007 8:16 AM  
Blogger knitbysue said...

Oh, one more thing to add. When I was trying to find out about our town's city-wide Nordic ski club (for 7th to 12th graders) the high school athletic secretary knew it existed but didn't know any details. The person who ended up filling me in and was quite knowledgeable was one of the owners of the local ski store. So another thing to try is to find local athletic stores that carry high school sports equipment (i.e hockey equipment), drop in during a non-busy time and ask a few questions.
Or drop in on some hockey practices at the local arena and strike up a conversation with a parent or two.
Before signing Max up make sure you understand the practice schedule involved. Because ice-time is often at a premium parents can end up driving their kids to practice at crazy hours.
Last but not least take Max to some high school hockey games. They are fun & easier to get to and less expensive than pro-games. High school hockey is kind of different from pro-hockey.
College hockey is my favorite to watch so if you can try to also take in a U of Minn gopher hockey game.

December 31, 2007 8:30 AM  
Anonymous twinsetellen said...

Happy New Year to all!

My twin has confessed to planning to celebrate the new year on Greenwich Mean Time, which is tempting, indeed!

December 31, 2007 7:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorry I've not kept up w. your blog :( Just got your email and popped in to say Happy New Year and my wishes for the best! I have to chime in w. some hockey info. Like the previous posters - I echo alot of the sentiments (even if it was roller hockey my son played). Alot of skating practice whenever he can get it in, just shooting the puck around w. others, even watching others play - it all helps. As long as he as interest and is continually encouraged I think he'd do fine. Hockey is cool - on the west coast it's a mix of ice and roller but nonetheless - FUN! Terry in SF

January 01, 2008 3:47 AM  

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