Saturday, May 24, 2008

89

Today my mom would have been 89. Thursday was the 4th anniversary of her death. I miss her very much, and often as I'm standing in line at the airport or the post office I'll think of her and every now and then start to call her before I remember. (I used to call her in line to pass time and touch base).

My cousin Jan called, I called back, cell phone tag. Mom was like a second mother to her, I know she misses her as much as I do - almost.

We bought tickets for the Saints game on Sunday. The first 2,500 patrons to show up get a bobble-foot Larry Craig doll, so we'll be there early! I wonder when they start letting folks in...

The thing about Gerry is, with his walker, he always has a place to sit when we're waiting in line. Mom would get a real kick out of the bobble-foot handout...

I went out for a long walk this morning and bought myself a small shoulder bag which will be perfect for travel (a pocket for wallet, passport, inhaler and small knit project) I love bibelot! The walk was perfect, Atticus was having fun and the kids are both engaged with friends.

I stopped to chat with a neighbor and thought how far we've come in terms of feeling part of the neighborhood in a year. I'd love to get Gerry out for more walks, but it's hard for him - he'd rather stay around the house where he can sit whenever he wants. I also think he feels very visible with his walker. He'd love to see the hundreds of different shades of lilac that are blooming up close!

Max started baseball this week, he hit the ball a few times at practice but his catching needs some work. He's on the same team with "old" friends and a wonderful, supportive coach. I was thinking about this when this ad came on TV



I'm beginning to believe it's all a conspiracy to see how wrinkled the skin under my eyes can be with a week of crying. I'm closing in on Eleanor Roosevelt territory.

We went to the Surly Brewery last night for the most low-key tour in the world. A bunch of folks standing around tasting beer, then a brief talk by the brewery owner about how he got started (we all should have been sitting around a big bar...)

I asked if the brewery was named for the Duff beer character, but it's not. Oh, well... For me, it was the best kind of tour Ð but not so fun for the kids Ð so we ducked out when the talk winded down. I did buy a growler of Furious, it's very hoppy!

Max is off playing with friends, Hannah is meeting a friend at the playground and later today we'll all go to Indiana Jones as a family event, although Hannah and her friend may exercise their autonomy by seeing a different movie. Not Baby Mama. Although I'd like to see that, myself...

I sent in the promo proof manuscript of Knit With Courage to the printer, along with the cover. I'm having 200 printed in a small run to hand out at TNNA and send to reviewers, to start a bit of buzz and find the places in the book where things may need to be explained better.

The actual pub date for the book will be September 1st, Gerry's "birthday" - his first day with his new stem cells last year. I put Atticus on the cover because he deserves to be, and used my favorite photo of Gerry and the kids on the back cover.

I've never hired a PR person, and I'm not sure if I can afford to this time, but I'm reading up as much as I can on ways to get the book into the right hands to review it. I did a lot of leg work with Confessions and it really paid off, but so much of the work is researching which person at which publication should get the book. And, of course, which bloggers need to get a copy of the book, too...

Very helpful in this process is my old standby, Bestseller in 30 Days, which has a lot of great tips on ways to position and market a book. I was surprised by how short the marketing process seemed to be for my 3 published books, it was as if they expected the market to die off in 6 months, so there wasn't a lot of push after that. I believe that knitters tend to be a longer-term market, and thus deserve a long-term marketing strategy.

Now if I could only come up with one...

You may have noticed the large SC to the right on the blog page. It's the Stitch Cooperative, a new endeavor I'm involved with - several independent designers are getting together to offer our patterns for retail (online) and wholesale (through shops) in the hopes that a cooperative will allow yarn shops to more easily carry a variety of independent designers. Instead of needing to buy a minimum of 5 or 6 of each pattern, they can just buy a few and spread their minimums across all the offerings of the Stitch Cooperative.

We've secured a booth at TNNA - #1056 - and we're hopeful to start taking orders to see if this is an idea that might fly!
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7 Comments:

Anonymous Judy said...

I called my mother every day, just to check in. She's been gone now for 12 years. But there are still times that I think, "I must remember to tell Mama about this or that." It still hurts when I remember that I can't.

Sometimes in the car, I carry on a sort of running conversation with Mama in my head. It helps me to see more clearly what's going on in my life. From what others have told me, I'm not that odd or unusual. (My nearest and dearest, however, may argue with that assessment.)

May 24, 2008 4:24 PM  
Anonymous Robin/Indy said...

One of my friends has a new yarn and fabric shop (Clementine's Dry Goods in Franklin, IN)and I know she would love be able to have more patterns from different designers - minimums are always a concern. Great Idea! Sounds good for all, Designers, Shops and Customers.
Robin

May 24, 2008 5:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

(((Hugs)))
Losing someone you love is hard. I lost my Nana (this morning) and I'll never stop missing her. My thoughts are with you.

Anna x

May 24, 2008 6:04 PM  
Blogger adamgv said...

The best thing to use is a fabric shaver. The best one I know of is on the link.

May 24, 2008 8:39 PM  
Blogger tina said...

Your post sent my heart a small song. My Mom, Betty, has been gone now for almost 10 years and I think I miss her more than ever. The times I want to call, or to laugh, or just to sit and be quiet with the woman who loved me above all for no reason other than because. Of course we love them more as time passes because as our wisdom grows we have an even greater realization of how extraordinary our mothers were---- why this knowledge can't be imparted to a 13 year old girl escapes me.

Onto your upcoming book----- I want to read this with a fire in my gut! Can't wait....... I'll have to start scouting elves bound for TNNA!!!

May 25, 2008 12:53 PM  
Anonymous twinsetellen said...

Annie - with "St. Paul" emblazoned on the cover, I'll bet you're considering local promotion opportunities. If you could figure out how to get Garrison Keillor to read it and comment on it, that would be something. Maybe a copy to MPR, though, as something they might want to pick up for a Midmorning conversation. Local radio and news, too. You've probably got these ideas covered, but just in case they hadn't popped into your head yet, I thought I'd send them on.

Peace to all who are missing someone. It is wonderful you ahd such a good relationship that they stay in a relatinship with you today.

May 25, 2008 2:37 PM  
Blogger ellen said...

I miss my mama too...she was called Mummy. (English background) I lost her way too young..it's hard trying to be the person your mother was when you were "not finished". But, then, when are we ever "finished"?
I send my best to you and your family. Life sure throws curves, doesn't it? You have my forever respect regarding your courage, love and fortitude. I think that you are a truly amazing woman, wife and mother.
Wishing I could wave a magic wand..e.

May 25, 2008 7:11 PM  

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