Thursday, October 09, 2008

...and gone.

D. Janese "Jan" Tennant
December 6, 1953 - October 8, 2008

It is with enormous sadness that I write to tell you that Jan passed from this world last evening around 9:45.

Her sister-in-law, Joyce, and I were with her at the end. The love of her life, David, arrived just minutes after she passed - we were all with her.

Joyce has been an amazing angel in all of this, comforting, calming and being with Jan every moment that she could. She continues to be a source of strength. Her friends who streamed in and out of her room and the nurses at Harmar Place were wonderfully uplifting to her spirits, we are grateful for their love and attention.

Jan leaves a space that will be hard to fill - she held so many people together, and was one of the most widely loved people I know.


David said last night, She didn't have an enemy

...Except, maybe, for the woman next door who didn't like her dogs barking.

Jan was that loved.
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81 Comments:

Blogger Roobeedoo said...

hugs.

October 09, 2008 7:32 AM  
Blogger Mary Lou said...

How wonderful you were able to be with her as she passed. Sending healing thoughts.

October 09, 2008 7:40 AM  
Blogger Elizabeth said...

As blessed as you were to have Jan in your life, we are blessed to have YOU in each of our lives. I will try to be a better person today in Jan's memory, and in your honor.
Elizabeth

October 09, 2008 7:45 AM  
Blogger Trillian42 said...

Annie, I'm so, so sorry. When you were here for the class I took at Stitch DC, Jan sent you a picture on your phone, and your affection for her was so clear just from the smile on your face. I am so glad that you were able to be with her at the end.

October 09, 2008 7:48 AM  
Blogger Nancy said...

I'm so glad you made it there to be with her. I'll be thinking of you.

October 09, 2008 7:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You and you're family are in my prayers.

October 09, 2008 7:58 AM  
Blogger Karen said...

hugs to all of you.

October 09, 2008 8:06 AM  
Blogger heatherfeather said...

Oh dear, Annie.

I am so sorry. Please accept my condolences for you and all who love Jan. Such empty words, but please believe all of the emotion and love I can muster is behind them.

October 09, 2008 8:08 AM  
Blogger Siercia said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 8:08 AM  
Blogger La Cabeza Grande said...

Her spirit is at rest. My you, and those her loved her, find peace.

October 09, 2008 8:32 AM  
Blogger Northside Knitter said...

My thoughts are with you and your family. It is clear from your description of Jan that she was a beloved person.

Diane

October 09, 2008 8:33 AM  
Blogger Gina Black said...

I'm so sorry.

October 09, 2008 8:37 AM  
Blogger Corvi said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, but so glad you were able to be there. She sounds like a dear person.

October 09, 2008 8:40 AM  
Blogger Edie said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family. I'm glad you were able to be there for her.

October 09, 2008 8:41 AM  
Blogger donna said...

I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

October 09, 2008 8:45 AM  
Blogger Ellen said...

My heartfelt condolences to you Annie dear and to all of Jan's family and friends.

October 09, 2008 9:08 AM  
Blogger ambermoggie said...

Glad you were there to ease her passing. Sending healing thoughts and strength for her family and friends.

October 09, 2008 9:12 AM  
Blogger Arleta said...

Am praying for all of you.

October 09, 2008 9:13 AM  
Blogger evie said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, but thankful you were able to be there for I am sure she knew you and Joyce were with her. You are in my thoughts.

October 09, 2008 9:17 AM  
Anonymous Cathy said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 9:31 AM  
Anonymous Kayla said...

My thoughts are with you and my prayers are for your strength and for your peace.

October 09, 2008 9:43 AM  
Blogger lookinout said...

I wonder how many of us read you, and sympathize without commenting. Anyway I send peace and strength wishes to you and safe driving.
Gillian

October 09, 2008 9:44 AM  
Blogger catie said...

Sending you love and light.

October 09, 2008 9:49 AM  
Anonymous Lynne said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 10:09 AM  
Blogger Sharon said...

I'm so sorry, hoping you feel the prayers and strength we are all sending you.

October 09, 2008 10:19 AM  
Anonymous Paula said...

Annie
I'm sure Jan knew you were there. So many times I have experienced that hearing is the last sense to go ... people can hear long after they seem quite unconscious ... I'm so so glad you were able to be there with her.
Now, it is time to be good to yourself ...

October 09, 2008 10:31 AM  
Blogger london said...

god bless, annie.

October 09, 2008 10:56 AM  
Blogger Cori said...

I'm sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 10:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Friend, We are all so sorry about the loss of such a wonderful person who was so important to someone so special to us. You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Cathy

October 09, 2008 11:01 AM  
Blogger shoeboots said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm glad you were there for her, and that she was surrounded by love in her last moments. Take care!

October 09, 2008 11:10 AM  
Anonymous Annette said...

Lots of thoughts, Annie

October 09, 2008 11:10 AM  
Blogger Leslie said...

You were there, Joyce was there, David's heart had, I'm sure, arrived ahead of his body to be there with her. Jan went surrounded by love; all of us should be so lucky.

My sympathy to those she left behind because for you to love her so, she must have been an exceptional person.

October 09, 2008 11:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry...........

October 09, 2008 11:27 AM  
Blogger Molly said...

Oh, Annie. I am truly sorry. I hold you in the light of God, in the most peaceful and loving way possible.

October 09, 2008 11:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh, Annie...I am SO sorry for your loss. How lucky for Jan to be surrounded by so much love at such a poignant time. God bless her and may her memory be eternal.

Hugs-
Margie

October 09, 2008 11:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

May she rest in peace.

October 09, 2008 12:25 PM  
Anonymous ali said...

Annie,

So sorry for your loss. Prayers and good wishes for Gerry.

Blessings,
Ali

October 09, 2008 12:29 PM  
Blogger Geek Knitter said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

October 09, 2008 1:31 PM  
Blogger Peglett said...

glad you got a chance to say your last good-bye. It's always so hard and sad. Many are praying for you and sending love.

October 09, 2008 2:10 PM  
Blogger Laura said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you were able to be there for Jan, though. I've been unconscious and I could hear the people I cared about conversing next to me.

What about her dogs? Were they all placed?

Hugs...

October 09, 2008 2:20 PM  
Blogger .micki. said...

oh annie,
I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
*hugs*

October 09, 2008 2:35 PM  
Anonymous nifer said...

You have not lost a loved one, she still lives in your heart, you have gained an angel, to look after you and yours.

October 09, 2008 2:48 PM  
Anonymous linda s. said...

Annie, I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find it comforting that you were there for her at her passing.

October 09, 2008 2:52 PM  
Anonymous Annie A. said...

Dear Annie,

I am so sorry for your loss. Hang in there and know that Jan is now free. And, thanks for staying in MSP to read to us on Monday-
Much Love-
Annie A.

October 09, 2008 2:52 PM  
Blogger Ruth said...

I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 3:24 PM  
Blogger Ravlery: Irish Clover said...

Annie, I am very sorry to hear about your lost. My heart goes out to you and Jan's family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

October 09, 2008 3:24 PM  
Blogger Linda said...

Bless you and your family during this difficult time

October 09, 2008 4:21 PM  
Anonymous Judith in Ottawa said...

You are in my thoughts

October 09, 2008 7:48 PM  
Blogger KERaven said...

May you feel the peace that Jan is certainly experiencing right now. Prayers, Kristin.

October 09, 2008 7:58 PM  
Anonymous Leslie said...

Ah, sweetie. I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}}

October 09, 2008 8:15 PM  
Blogger suzenew said...

Dear Annie,
I am so sorry for your loss.

October 09, 2008 8:36 PM  
Blogger JakkiMitch said...

Wishing you peace, strength, and hope

October 09, 2008 8:38 PM  
Blogger Penny said...

may you, your family, and friends find comfort in the loss of Jan and may her memory be a blessing.

{hugs}

October 09, 2008 8:55 PM  
Blogger michelle said...

So sorry, but also so glad you could be there. Thinking of you.

October 09, 2008 9:31 PM  
Anonymous twinsetellen said...

Annie,
Jan was blessed by a generous universe to have you for a cousin. I, too, am sure your presence comforted her. I hope the light of life in Max and Hannah's eyes brings you comfort and peace when you return home.

October 09, 2008 9:48 PM  
Blogger Karen said...

Annie,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time.

October 09, 2008 10:28 PM  
Blogger Joe said...

Hi Annie sorry to hear about Jan. All the best to you and your family. Be well.

Lawrence

October 09, 2008 10:37 PM  
Anonymous Jessica K. said...

I am sorry for your loss. I am sure you were a great comfort to her.

October 09, 2008 10:38 PM  
Anonymous twinsetjan said...

So, so sorry...you'll all be in my prayers for comfort in your loss.

October 09, 2008 11:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. You will be in my prayers

October 09, 2008 11:18 PM  
Blogger subliminalrabbit said...

annie, so, so sorry for your loss. we are thinking of you.

October 10, 2008 12:06 AM  
Blogger no-blog-rachel said...

So sorry, Annie. Love to you.

October 10, 2008 12:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Aleza

October 10, 2008 12:41 AM  
Blogger WandaWoman said...

I'm so sorry for your loss Annie. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

October 10, 2008 1:06 AM  
Blogger Rachel said...

I am so so sorry..... I am glad you were able to be with her at the end, if only for the peace it will give you

October 10, 2008 1:58 AM  
Blogger Judy said...

Oh Annie--I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and Jan were blessed to have each other for the time that you did. My condolences to you and your family.

October 10, 2008 7:49 AM  
Blogger Julie said...

I'm sorry to hear of her passing, Annie. But I am SO grateful that you made it in time to be with her--what a blessing for you to be able to comfort her at this time. I'll keep you and her family in my thoughts.

October 10, 2008 8:23 AM  
Blogger Lorena said...

Hugs, love, strength, peace. May we all have someone such as you at our side when it is our time to leave the party.

October 10, 2008 8:32 AM  
Blogger Joanne said...

Oh, I'm sorry, Annie! Love and healing to you at this hard time. Baruch Dayan Ha-emet. May Jan rest in peace...and courage to you as you face the joy of her memory and the sadness of losing her.

October 10, 2008 8:42 AM  
Anonymous Elise H said...

Dear Annie..I was so sorry to read that you lost your dear cousin and on Yom Kippur of all times. I am sorry that the Book of Life had closed but hope that you remember how blessed she was and you as well. My sincerest condolences on your loss. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Elise

October 10, 2008 10:34 AM  
Blogger Lorna's Laces said...

We're thinking of you!

October 10, 2008 11:08 AM  
Blogger Susan said...

Annie, I'm so sorry to read about your loss. My thoughts are with you.

October 10, 2008 11:54 AM  
Blogger Rasa said...

Words seem so empty at times like this; know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

October 10, 2008 1:44 PM  
Anonymous Roz said...

She waited for you to get there so you could be together. She knew you were there to see her on her way. That is the definition of selfless trust and love.

Trust that we're all sharing your sorrow.

October 10, 2008 3:22 PM  
Anonymous Bonney said...

I'm so sorry; hoping you find solace in the happy memories.

October 10, 2008 4:10 PM  
Anonymous Jaimi said...

Besides being with someone when they enter this world, the next most beautiful thing is being there when they leave it. God Bless Jan, and your family.

October 10, 2008 7:04 PM  
Anonymous Liz said...

I'm so sorry Annie, but glad you made it there. May your memories be joyful.

October 10, 2008 7:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm very sorry for your loss.

October 10, 2008 8:50 PM  
Blogger Lynn said...

Big hugs from Texas. I am so sorry for your loss, and I am thankful that you were able to be with Jan when she graduated summa cum laude from earth life.

October 11, 2008 8:00 AM  
Blogger DeltaDawn said...

Oh Annie.... I'm so so sorry for this loss. You're always in my thoughts and I'm sending my warmest energies your way.

October 11, 2008 3:43 PM  
Blogger Jena the yarn harpy said...

Annie, I am so sorry for Jan's passing and the grief that you all are feeling. At least she passed with love and company from those who meant the most to her.
I hope your healing will come quickly, but that the memories of her will be eternal.

October 16, 2008 10:43 PM  

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