Native-esque
The sky here in Minnesota is absolutely beautiful. Watching the clouds is better than watching a movie - the weather changes, the clouds are so alive & active. It looks like rain over the next few days - we could use it - and I'm anxious to see the show.
Returning from vacation and getting back into our routine has been a grounding for my mind. I'm feeling like a St. Pauler (St. Pauli?) Walking down Fairmount after dropping the kids off at camp, waving to folks I see just about every day, stopping to pet another dog (while trying to keep Atticus from becoming too - ahem - friendly with the poor pup) - all of these things make me feel so right here.
Well, a right as a lefty like me can feel.
I guess I mean I feel like I'm in the right place at the right time. I think the kids and Gerry feel this way, too - they say they do - but when there's such an upheaval in our lives it's hard to know for certain how we feel about anything.
Being pranked in such a gentle and funny way is good.
I stopped by the Bravo Bakery (free wifi!) today to pick up a piece of green tea cake (I'd noticed it a few weeks ago and wanted to bring a piece home for us to try... It's delicious, by the way) and sitting outside was a nice mom with her two children.
She looked SO much like my friend from back home, Ami, that I had to stop and look twice. She's a trifle shorter, but in many other ways she could easily be Ami's cousin. Wave of homesickness.
We chatted briefly - they just moved here less than 24 hours ago from Ann Arbor - and I found myself telling her some of the great things on Grand ave, and what a wonderful place this is - on the way home I kicked myself for not offering my email address. I felt like a native. Well, maybe not entirely like a native, but pretty durned close.
Today after the oncologist visit (he's very happy with Gerry's progress this week) we picked up the dishwasher we bought last month and now it's stored in our garage along with a cooktop from ebay and a microwave/vent unit from an appliance sale. Little by little we're getting the things we'll need for our kitchen re-do squared away.
We're trying to get things set up so that the lion's share of the work will be done while we're in Rochester (and we'll just return home to a beautiful new bathroom and kitchen... [cue music])
Comment Note
The comments have been a WEALTH of information - thank you to all of you who are making such great suggestions! They've led me down some interesting paths as I try to find a place for us to light while in Rochester.
We do have to take Atticus into consideration - he'll be with us down in Rochester. Yes, this is a case of sending the kids away - but keeping the dog with us...Your advice and help and the stories you are all sharing with us via email and comments are so touching and very humanizing.
Thank you ALL for your care & love - and for being part of this amazing fiber-lovin' community!









24 Comments:
You're a lefty! Do you knit left handed? I'm also a lefty :) And while there are very few knitters around me, the people I occasionally meet who do knit think its weird that I knit "backwards". I'm proud of my lefty status and refused to learn to knit right handed, so I often have to reverse the knitting directions (left needle to right needle, exct.) in my head.
oops - I meant lefty in the political sense. Although I am fairly ambidextrous. Perhaps in that way, too... Mom was a Republican and Dad was a Democrat, so I'm a child of a mixed marriage...
Glad you and your family is settling into your new city.
We too have a lovely (girl) black standard poodle. There is no way if we were going out of town that she wouldn't be staying with us even if it was weeks. There are a lot of hotels that allow pets. Plus, having Atticus there will be good for you and Gerry's healing process.
That bike is *beautiful*!!! I've been looking for one just like that for such a long time now...alas, the garage sales and thrift stores in my area haven't provided :-(
Your haircut is really cute. Turned out nice.
Hi Annie--
Need some good news? I just got an advance copy of Beyond Basic Crocheting. Your design contributions (socks, wire necklace) look fabulous. The book will be out in August. I hope it will introduce lots of people to your work and website. Will send a copy as soon as I have more than one!
You might want to check with Gerry's docs regarding Atticus' presence during the high-dose chemo.
Your family is in the right place (in MN and in the fiber community). Concentrate on the "A" priorities and the rest will take care of itself. Best to Gerry and all of you.
Sharon Silverman
www.SharonSilverman.com
GREAT pix of you and gerry in this post. you both look relaxed, considering the upheaval.
thinking of you as you prepare for rochester, and sending good karma your way.
St. Paulite would be my vote after 5+ years here. And the school is Cretin-Durham Hall- it's a Catholic school.
Also, nice bike!
LOL! So you're the "St. Paulie Girl" guess that explains the love of beer ;)
Annie,
I was visiting the ex's family this weekend. Former aunt-in-law has been living with multiple myeloma for 10--yes, 10--years. Two summers ago her red blood cell count was so low she slept about 16 hours a day, and we all thought that was it for her. Her doctors decided, what have we got to lose? and put her on a regime of that nasty 1950s drug thalidomide (caused all the birth defects when pregnent women took it). It has made an AMAZING difference in her energy, quality of life, etc. The doctors are guardedly optimistic. Obviously every case is wildly different, and this stuff may not do Gerry any good at all, but I wanted you to know about how it sure has helped one Califiornia woman.
--Ann
Hey Ann!
Gerry's been on Thalidomide now for almost 3 months, it's made an AMAZING difference in his recovery. It's new, though, so they're not sure how long and how well it will keep on keepin' on.
We have medical insurance - thank god - but we still see the bills for the medicine and one month of this is $5,000. What do the 47 million who don't have insurance - or the hundreds of millions who don't have good prescription coverage do?
Oy. Don't ever forget that we're the wealthiest nation in the world.
I miss the Minnesota sky -- here in Tokyo, it's gray much of the time, or solid blue in spring and fall, but every time we get fluffy clouds or a bit of green-ish tinge in the sky I get all excited!
Wishing your family the best -- I'm so glad that you have people rallying around you!
I have always referred to the people of St. Paul as St. Paulites. But then I like to make up my own words, so I may not be the one to ask.
If you are bringing your dog and staying for a long time in Rochester, maybe you could find a house to rent. I know the Kahler lets you have pets in your hotel room, because we brought our little one, but a standard poodle in a hotel room for 6 weeks, is a very cramped situation. Good luck.
If you can't find an apartment that will allow pets, I know that the Marriott Residence Inn (in Rochester)allows pets for a $100 "sanitation" fee.
Best of luck with everything - cancer does suck, but you & Gerry seem to have an amazing capacity to be positive.
Grean tea cake!? Yum! Off to Google a recipe... Hang in there. Knitters everywhere are praying for you.
Sounds like the vacation did you a world of good, and your return has been full of good things, too. Love the bike!
You will probably run into your new friend again, if she's in the neighborhood.
Found your blog via Crazy Aunt Purl. Of course it was Atticus who really caught my attention. Glad he can go with you.
Good luck!
I've been reading your blog for ages and never comment but had to say you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My hubby has been going through his own cancer treatment (colon/prostate) for the past 18 months. Medical deductibles geesh!!! Between that and $700 a month insurance premiums I too don't know how folks with less income manages, at all.
Chemo for my hubby runs anywhere between $10,000-$15,000 a week plus those "extra" shots alone are $4,000-$7,000 a piece. Travesty I tell ya a person can't get ahead.
So I definitely know how this weighs on your mind. A few days get the better of me and I have pity parties but quickly they're over. I just keep turning into a tougher bird all the time.
-Another Annie
I can't believe someone famous is just across the river from me! If you get the chance, you'll have to take Atticus for some playtime at the Minnehaha dog park at the river. Before it became an official dogpark, it was known as "doggie heaven," and it surely is still that.
Take care and let some of us locals know if you need anything.
As the other Annie (anonymous) says, I don't know how people can afford treatment. My aunt just finished chemo, but has had to have a couple of those "other" shots at $4,000. a shot. It is a travesty how expensive something that is potentially life-saving can be. Not only do you have to deal with cancer, but have the expenses hanging over your head too. It seems to be so hard to just concentrate on fighting the disease and to get better with all the financial worries.
I'm so happy that you had such a great vacation. That does a lot for a person's soul and attitude. Hang in there. There are so many of us out here in cyberspace who are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers every day. If there's anything I can ever do for you, please let me know. I just wish I lived closer to you.
Have a great Fourth. Please give my good thoughts and wishes to Gerry, Hannah, and Max. Great pictures of your children - love their red hair! Very cute kids! :o)
Glad to hear Gerry is doing well. BTW, You haven't done kitchen or bath remodeling before have you? LOL
A Chicagoan myself but married to a St Paulite for 16 3/4 years, I can say, yes, when you live here and wish to describe yourself by that affiliation, you are a St Paulite.
The University Club had great t-shirts a few years ago that describe the DH perfectly, "Ridiculously content in St Paul."
Lynne caught my question precisely, BTW, LOL. Even so, a girl can dream!
Gerrie in Mac-Groveland
I hope you find a good doggie-friendly place to stay in Rochester! I know several of the hotels downtown allow pets. And there are 2 great dog parks in town, I always find that taking my lab there is good "unwinding" time. I don't think I've ever been there without laughing lots at all the happy canines.
- Kandace
Annie,
I'm a Rochesterite(??) with a suggestion for Atticus while you're here. Our dog goes to daycare one day a week at Animal Friends. The folks who run the place are great and Ely (the dog) seems to really like it there. You may need to leave him for longish periods some days during treatments. They also do boarding. If you want more information about daycare or info about Rochester I'd love to help, just email teamsharp95@yahoo.com
Could you board him? or is that not an option? FM107.1 has an add for a place that sounds like they take really good care of your pet. There are lots of good places in the area, and I'm sure a few doozies, but if it's an option you should check it out.
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