Tuesday, August 14, 2007

A Weight Is Lifted

We have a new case worker with our insurance company, and we discovered something quite wonderful...

We get a [small] daily stipend for meals and room!

It's not huge, it doesn't cover everything, but it's more than we thought we'd be getting. This is amazing.

Apparently when we were looking into the program at the U of Mn this wasn't available because Gerry would be an in patient. When we moved our treatment to Mayo, Gerry became an outpatient and thus the stipend kicked in.

But we didn't know about it - not until the NEW case worker made us aware of it.

Yay, new, improved case worker! Here Gerry is celebrating with Gigi, who really couldn't care less as long as she has her Meow Mix. She's plotting escape routes.

So - in light of this amazing new news - I've removed the heart tugging photo of Gerry & Maxie from the sidebar of my blog, and have updated the Red Carpet Convertible page to reflect our good news.

We have no idea where we'll be a few months from now (why should we be any different than most of the world?), but we're assuming the best and at this point we're covered for our budgeted non-medical expenses between what the insurance will cough up and what folks have given in exchange for the Red Carpet Convertible.

Once again, thank you to EVERYONE who helped us by purchasing the pattern. THANK YOU!

I hadn't realized just what a weight this was on my mind until it was gone - and suddenly it's like I removed a pair of dark glasses - everything is lighter! Actually, today everything is overcast weather-wise, and we had some MAJOR hail last night lashing at the window, but in our internal world it's sunny and bright! Gerry slept better last night than he has in weeks.

KNIT MUCH?
I didn't think I'd be getting much knitting done for the first week - so many appointments to make, so much driving and rushing - but I'm making progress on three separate projects and sketching as much as I can when the inspiration strikes.

All of these unique clothing pieces and the beautiful art at the Mayo is very inspirational.

If I can finish the blue piece soon, I can send that off to VK and life will be good.

The more observant of you may notice that this is VERY different from my original swatch. That's how things work sometimes...

Adina at VK wanted something lacier, and less rectangular, and I'm loving how this new incarnation is working out.

The bonus is that I can use my earlier idea and create a new design. Woo!

WEATHER INDUCED
Speaking of weather, my COPD's been behaving badly - not terribly - just annoying with lots of middle of the night waking, coughing, and shortness of breath. I've been worse, but it's noticeable and I don't want to get kicked out of the chemo wing. So yesterday Gerry insisted I register myself at the Mayo and make an appt to see a pulmonary doc (luckily there was a cancellation, so I'll be seeing someone today!)

In our time in St. Paul I hadn't had the chance to find a new pulmonary doc (I really liked mine back in NJ) so I've let the COPD slide and I've been treating it like severe asthma. Not a great long-term plan. So hopefully today I'll get a new regime of things I must do to retain my good breathing health - and be here 100% for Gerry.

Every time I fill out one of those 15-page health background forms, I'm shocked by how healthy I really am! Except for the breathing, and a need to lose 10 (or 50) pounds, I'm in pretty good shape! So - pretty much just to get attention - now I'm being treated at the Mayo, too!

So there, Mr. Landy.

FUN STUFF
I've been wearing the same tired old pair of floral Birkenstocks for years now - I love them, but they're not the most elegant of footwear.

I saw these on sale last week near the Mayo - and yesterday I bought them. Good for Spring, Summer and part of Fall - and a nice bargain.

France, here I come! Perhaps Gigi would like to come with me?

HOLY COW!
The scooter is gone.

26 Comments:

Anonymous said...

I hadn't checked your blog since you got to Rochester and, wow, does it bring back memories of our stay there last year! I'm glad some insurance will kick in to help. I think where your staying is great and, sorry, helping support things by buying a pattern doesn't give anyone any rights over your choices and decisions. You know what you need to do.

The convent is lovely and we spent a lot of time up on that hill. It's a very peaceful place. We never checked to see if they have tours.

I love all of your photos of the art at the Mayo buildings--I found it very inspirational, too, and it's good to be reminded.

I'm thinking of you often, Marjorie

August 14, 2007 12:02 PM  
balletmommy said...

Lovely sandals. And Reikers are sooo comfy!

August 14, 2007 12:13 PM  
susanc said...

Thanks GREAT news Annie! Yay!!! Love the new sandals too.

I was so happy to read that you have gotten the insurance stipend. That's wonderful.

Take care. I'm keeping you, Gerry, Hannah, and Max in my thoughts and prayers. Love the picture of Gerry and Gigi!

August 14, 2007 1:05 PM  
susanc said...

Oh, I forgot to mention that the knitting looks beautiful. Love the colorway of the yarns! So pretty! Can't wait to see the finished projects.

August 14, 2007 1:06 PM  
Penny said...

YAY!!!

August 14, 2007 1:29 PM  
Marin said...

Hmmmmm... sitting and staring at the screen and wondering how to say this right:

I'm so glad for you guys and I'm glad you reached your financial goal. But is it too selfish that I'm glad for me that I was a part of it?

When things go haywire for friends (even imaginary friends, as I call the bloggers I stalk), it's easy to feel helpless. I know you got something -- a lot of something -- out of this, but it really soothed my soul to have something concrete to do for you. Thanks for letting me -- us -- help.

Enough gush. Keep on keepin' on.

XOXO

August 14, 2007 1:32 PM  
Amy Venditti said...

Oh Annie I'm so happy to hear about the insurance stipend and that everything's going smoothly! It sounds like Staybridge is THE place for you. Keep up the good work guys. : )

August 14, 2007 1:51 PM  
Donna said...

The knitting is lovely & I covet those gorgeous sandals! I have some that have that exact shape & would look exactly like that except that they are ugly gray suede athletic style New Balance sandals. I will have to check out that brand. Great news about the small insurance stipend!

August 14, 2007 2:17 PM  
Cheesy Knit Wit said...

I am so glad to hear that a weight has been lifted. A financial strain and health issues are horrible alone, yet alone together!

May God bless you both!

Nice Birks by the way!

Hugs

August 14, 2007 3:03 PM  
Kat said...

That's so cute ... I stumbled across those same sandals on Zappos.com last week and put them on my wishlist. I'm glad to hear they are as wonderful in person as they are on the internets! Perhaps now I will move them from my "wish list" to my "gotta have them NowNowNow" list! :)

Best wishes at Mayo!

August 14, 2007 3:27 PM  
Joanne said...

The knitting projects are beautiful! I'm also glad that the bigger project--you and Gerry's health-is going as well as one could hope. Good for you regarding the insurance stipend! What a relief! I'm thinking of you, Annie, and wishing you all good things.

August 14, 2007 4:00 PM  
Anonymous said...

Also, don't forget that medical expenses not covered by insurance are tax deductable at a certain point.

August 14, 2007 5:03 PM  
PICAdrienne said...

I am so happy for you! Now, if you can just get a 'new case worker' for the SSI.

By the way, the red carpet convertable picture is not displaying for me, current operating system and browsers on this machine. The Romantic Knits picture does display.

August 14, 2007 5:47 PM  
Anonymous said...

Wow-za -- WendyKnits gave your book an extremely positive review -- wonder what the Amazon rating is going to go up to now!!!

When you're touring Owatonna next, do consider visiting the bank downtown, near the park at the center of downtown. It's a beautiful building, and well worth the tour.

August 14, 2007 6:19 PM  
Michele said...

Attitudes like yours make the world go 'round!

August 14, 2007 6:40 PM  
Debbie said...

just checked out the donation site and wow, that is a lot of love coming at you and Gerry! Great to see such a big chunk of very small names.

August 14, 2007 7:49 PM  
Barbara said...

Annie

Following your progress in MN -- love to hear good news. Your son is doing well here (you probably remember I share an office with Ian, so keep up with you two ways!)

Went to the Yankee game tonight, loss of Scooter was well acknowledged. May we all live as long and full a life as he did!

We're opening an office in St. Paul -- see its not really too far from Maplewood!

Barbara HW

August 14, 2007 10:16 PM  
Judy said...

I hope you'll be feeling well enough to come out and play on Wednesday! :) Nice to hear they could accommodate you with a pulmonary specialist, too--I hope they can clear up your problems quickly.

Paris...what fun. I was just there at the end of May (got rained on a lot) and had a fabulous time. Hey--do you need any "European" plug converters? I have several you can use.

Judy in (Rochester)MN

August 14, 2007 11:08 PM  
Annie said...

Judy -

I'd LOVE to borrow some Euro plugs!

We have to go up to St. Paul tomorrow, but I'm hoping that we'll be home in plenty of time for not just me, but Gerry, to come by for knitting fun!

August 14, 2007 11:32 PM  
HeadKnitwit said...

Wow- good news and just in time. You deserve it. Gerry looks so good. Post a good photo of him with the kids. It will make you happy every time you see it. Now we pray for your lungs. Dress for France. Those people manage to look chic even if they are employed as trash men. So wish I where going on that trip. I hope you get to teach there again soon. Peace and prayers.

August 15, 2007 12:44 AM  
Miss Megs said...

Annie, I have been a longtime lurker on your blog and am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I also picked up a copy of Romantic Hand Knits last night at my bookstore, and I just wanted to say...AMAZING. I adore the entire book, and I cannot WAIT to start knitting. You are brilliantly talented, and thank you for sharing that with all of us!

Hope, prayers and good thoughts for you, Gerry and the rest of your family .

August 15, 2007 8:19 AM  
Sarah said...

Fantastic news, glad that some weight is off your shoulders.

August 15, 2007 12:22 PM  
Robin said...

Glad everything is going a little better for you. Hey, I'm doing my part by sponsoring a KAL for your great new book. It will start 11/1 to give everyone time to buy the book. I have a number of designs I'd like to knit, and I'd like to invite you to join to help with occasional sizing questions, etc. Let me know if you are interested!

August 15, 2007 3:05 PM  
Robin said...

Forgot to say the new site (which I literally set up 5 minutes ago) is http://yarncrawl.typepad.com/romantic_hand_knitsalong/. I'll build it out in the next few weeks and promote it on my blog (same addy except without the last part about the kal.)

August 15, 2007 3:06 PM  
HeadKnitwit said...

Love the RCC updated page. Look at all the love you deserve. Wow

August 15, 2007 4:48 PM  
Tammy said...

I received THE BOOK today. OMG!! My daughter and I went through it page by page and there are many, many things in there that we will knit. What a great book!!

I am so glad to hear that things are looking better financially. It is an awful strain when you wonder where it will come from. I know I second the comment above that basically said we are honored to help out a fellow knitter, woman, friend. We all wish you guys well. Gerry is looking good!

Gigi looks a little evil in the Paris picture. :)

August 15, 2007 9:51 PM  

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