Saturday, September 01, 2007

Day Zero, Day Plus One, etc., etc...

It's done. Gerry's at the top of the first hill in his roller coaster and is about to go shooting down into the valley. Right now his blood counts are good and his appetite is good.

And - aside from the overwhelming odor of stale, rotton, vinegary creamed corn emanating from his body due to the preservative used with the stem cells (seriously!) - he's pretty normal.

Actually, I think the transplant made him seem suave-er.

Or is it just that he's trying to convince me that French men have nothing on him?

But we're told that will change in the next few days. By day Plus Five or Plus Six, his counts will be low, and he'll be lower.

It will be rough, so they say, and I won't be there to make him feel better...

And I'll be in France. Feeling like a happy, relaxed piece of merde.

WAGON TRAIN
My sister in law and I drove up to St. Paul today with the kids and dog and cat, and we moved ourselves back into the house.

The kitchen's looking good - another few days and the floor will be entirely down. By the end of the week the cabinets are supposed to be in, then the appliances go in. Yay!

But it means that Gayle and the kids will be without a kitchen, but they will have laundry in the basement and a refrigerator in the garage. And a stove and microwave in the garage. But it's not fun, not at all.

When we arrived we had a HUGE amount of cleaning to do in the basement, sweeping, dusting and mopping. We had to light the pilot light for the water heater - hopefully we'll have hot water now - I really need a shower!

My work still isn't finished, but I pooped out and said we should stop and go to dinner.

Dinner at Dixies, then we shopped at Target to get groceries for the family while I'm gone, and we also picked up extension cords because...

HOT & DARK
No, it's not how I like my men; it's how our house was today!

Whether it's because the electrician has certain wires disconnected because of the city inspection thing, or some other unknown reason, large portions of our home are lacking electricity.

Aesthetically this means a big, heavy duty orange extension cord running up to the second floor with smaller cords running off of it to the bedrooms so we can have 1 light and 1 fan per room.

Physically it meant a lot of running around to find the right kind of extension cord, a lot of pushing furniture in the darkening, hot house and a lot of swearing.

But the upshot is we have a relatively cool and light house. I hate leaving things in this state for my sister in law (who has been an amazing help - such a trouper to get to work like she has - thank you, Gayle!)

Who knew I'd miss the Rochester so soon, huh? Here's an animation of the sun coming up over the Gonda building from the room where they did Gerry's transplant.

When I hugged my mother in law and kissed Gerry goodbye (a true test of love because I'm not fond of creamed corn...) I thought, "Soon I'll be in my OWN bed - yay!"

Little did I think that first I'd have so much work. Why is there always so much work?

PREP
Speaking of work, I need to prepare for my classes by getting my handouts together and packing intelligently tomorrow. I'm totally putting that off to tomorrow - I'm not even THINKING of packing today. I'm going to keep myself down to one large bag, plus my carry on - more than that I really don't need.

I'm not traveling with a butt load of books, and the yarn I'm taking is minimal. As for clothes, I'll be gone for 2 weeks which means I'll have some way to do or get laundry done.

I am getting excited, though. I've held off and haven't talked about it much at all, it just seemed wrong somehow, but now that the flight is tomorrow I'm getting psyched! Not for the 8 hour flight trapped in a coach window seat, but for the knitting time en route, the knitting time a la arrivˇe, and the time for resting.

And I have my handy-dandy wooden dpn's (just like pencils - who could object to them?) with the blood drop antenna toppers I got when I gave blood to brighten up the flight.

Since there are two tours, both following the same itineraries, I can choose to go on the day trips in the afternoon OR stay at the Inn and rest poolside (or just sleep!) and maybe get some knitting done. Since I have a deadline for the day I arrive back, I think that doing some knitting would not be a bad bet!

And now off to bed - at least, as soon as I shower (BOY do I need that!) And I fully intend to sleep in tomorrow as LATE as possible.

13 Comments:

Auntly H said...

Bon Voyage! Tell Gayle to let me know if she needs a hand with anything.

September 01, 2007 10:50 PM  
Auntly H said...

p.s. You give her directions to Izzy's, right?

September 01, 2007 10:50 PM  
susanc said...

Bon Voyage Annie! Have a safe flight and a wonderful trip!

September 01, 2007 10:57 PM  
Brenda in San Mateo said...

Hi Annie! Have a great time in France. This is really good timing so that you can be seeing a great place, teaching knitting and taking a break from your intense situation right now. Take some deep breaths and have a nice time.

September 02, 2007 1:05 AM  
HeadKnitwit said...

Au revoir Annie. Eat,drink red wine and enjoy the air. Take it all in and store it up. When my mom was ill in MI, the family said stay in CA and don't worry. I felt helpless and disconnected. Your being away is a gift to Gayle and Gerry's Mom. They want ownership of this ordeal too. Really. Share your gift of teaching and store up the good. Peace and prayers...

September 02, 2007 1:07 AM  
Anonymous said...

Bon Voyage. I don't remember exactly where you'll be but maybe you can get to see the lavender fields in Grasse. Try a cafˇ au lait every morning, which may be served in something like a deep soup bowl. I quite envy you the trip.
Gillian

September 02, 2007 10:57 AM  
Anna said...

Have a wonderful time in France. Relax and recharge your batteries. You need it. Your wonderful family need it for you too - how else are you going to keep up with being cheif cook and bottlewasher, caregiver, wife and Mum (sorry MOM!).

Be careful with those DPNs on the plane though. I couldn't fly from the UK to Portugal with my lovely birch ones. Luckily I had an S.A.E. on hand in case of such a tradgedy and was able to mail them straight back home rather then having them thrown in the bin (trash...).

September 02, 2007 11:33 AM  
Knitting Linguist said...

Oh, wow! I can't believe your flight is today. Have a wonderful time; I know that there will be moments when it will feel that you are on the wrong side of the pond, but enjoy your space and time there. Gerry is in good hands. (And, on the list of recommendations of things to try, if it's not too hot, you have got to try some chocolat -- it's hot chocolate, except a world away from the stuff we get here! With a warm baguette or croissant, it's just as good as it gets.)

Also, it's a good idea to either take a SASE or ask about your needles on the way home before you check your bags, so you could still put them in. I once took needles easily on a flight from LA to London, but when I checked with a security guard at Heathrow about taking them on the flight home, he looked at me very sternly, brandished a ball point pen at me and said, "You know 9/11?" I said (duh), "yes". He said (dramatically, flourishing ball point), "They used one of THESE!" I said, "So you want to take my ball point pens?" (noticeable pause, then) "No." (another pause) "But you can't take those on board." Sigh... Fly safely and enjoy the knitting time!

September 02, 2007 11:46 AM  
Sandy O said...

Have a great time and don't feel guilty! You need to recharge too.
Get a phone card over there. It won't cost as much as if you were calling or charging from here.

September 02, 2007 12:25 PM  
Anonymous said...

When I first saw your wooden dpns I thought the toppers were little flames - burn baby burn
-punkin

September 02, 2007 2:10 PM  
kmkat said...

I'm sure you are aware of the research that proves that healing power of laughter and joy. You and Gerry have stocked up on that while you were in Rochester together; that will help tide him over until you get back.

Enjoy your trip!

September 02, 2007 11:23 PM  
Anonymous said...

Annie, don't feel guilty.... after all, in addition to chief cook and bottlewasher you are currently the breadwinner, and this family needs you to keep up all your knitting connections in order to keep the bread coming in! Just because it's coming from France (which is a lovely and well-deserved bonus for you) doesn't mean you are not working for the sake of your family. Enjoy what you can, and let the others help. You'll be better able to deal with all the days plus....

Barbara M.

September 03, 2007 9:45 AM  
Michelle said...

Gerry's in good hands- No one loves him more-except for you-than his Mother!

Try to take a deep breath, relax and enjoy the trip! Looking forward to hearing about it, as well as gerry's progress.

September 03, 2007 2:30 PM  

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